Sunday, March 21, 2010

Defining Love



Yes, one more ode to the ever mysterious yet the most prevalent feeling called *Love*. People of all kinds, from all walks of life have tried to define and explore Love, tried, but not succeeded. What is it about Love that we all experience it, yet we cannot find out its meaning. What is it that keeps the minds reckoning about its secrets? The feeling that all endure but yet keeping them unsure about its existence. Such playful is this feeling that tricks the mind so cunningly, leaving it boggled and baffled about its reality. Can this feeling be ever defined in totality? I am no expert or an academician to play with words and create a set of words that in turn define one. Is Love really so complex feeling that leaves all puzzled yet amazed? Let us try and explore this Mystery of all time, "What is Love??"

Love has many definitions, may be definitions outnumber the population on this planet. Each one has its own definition, which with time and situation keeps changing its shades. I wonder, what is so special about Love, that makes it so special! A feeling that sets each heart ablaze and makes the soul ooh, aah and sigh all time. A feeling that makes you fly with no wings. A feeling that tickles and makes you giggle with no reason. A feeling that leaves an individual overwhelmed and full of joy, that it asks for no other pleasure. One of the purest and highest level of emotions that rules the world, which is not a property of Man but Soul. You may keep giving the likes and whens but you never hit the spot, when you are talking about Love. What is it that makes it so abstract and vague? Let us take a couple of Love concepts that have been told since the time eternal.



People "Fall in love". If its such a pure and high feeling that peaks the peak of emotions, then why one is to be said, falling in love? May be this is because Love teaches to be humble and lose your pride. When you are in love, you lose your identity and learn to identify yourself in someone else. May be because in love, the more you give, the more you feel content. The more you lose in love, the more you gain. The greater the fall, the greater the leap of transcendental spirit towards the higher realms.

Then they say, "Love is Blind". If such is the greatness of this feeling that takes you to a higher level, how can it deprive you from seeing the realities of this world. May be Love actually returns you your lost sight. Because Love shows you no other color, once in Love, you see or give nothing but love. Is it not the way to be? May be Love makes one a dog, that can see the Rainbow. (sorry for stealing this phrase, but i really love this, and for those who don't know, dogs are color blind!)



Aah...there are so many concepts, but not an exhaustive definition! Then how do you know when you are in love? Why cant we sustain Love when we see it all around and, if it is prevalent and so beautiful and colorful? I guess its present all over, but may be it is like white light, only when it receives showers, it reveals its colors and you can see the beautiful Rainbow shine. And like Rainbow wont shine till the sunshine and showers combine, Love doesn't shine and show its true colors without two parts that complete each other. We try to define Love, our minds reckoning? Mind doesn't know the language of love. The more we try to define, the more complex it gets. Love is the simplest of all emotions. Just give, give and give and you shall get it back in abundance. The one who gives and expects nothing but the joy of the beloved, is the one who actually gets Love. Mind can never understand Love because love belongs to heart and heart knows no theories. Its is one of the basic sanskars of the Soul. How can mind reach the property of the Soul? Definitions may be many, with the widest of spectrums, colors and textures, but feeling is one, *lOvE* <3


"Love means that which lasts forever. It doesn't diminish. It always grows and grows and grows and grows. That is not love that today we feel, and tomorrow we feel we don't love them anymore. If Love comes, it never goes. If it goes, it was never love."
- Huzur Maharaj Charan Singhji


[P.S.: Images: colors of love by ~himmado, deviantart.com
+Simply love+ by ~mARTy---, deviantart.com
Love by ~tigerlily88, deviantart.com]

8 comments:

Rahul Khatri said...

Hey, yep, that's what I was trying to say here, Love cannot be defined, only be felt!!:)

Suruchi said...

Brilliant master...the way you write now Rahul shows the marked progress of a deep thinking and expressing process:-)
I am so proud to have a friend like u
This is such a well laid out post...covering so many facets of love:-)

“A feeling that sets each heart ablaze and makes the soul ooh, aah and sigh all time.”
Awwww.....;-)

“A feeling that tickles and makes you giggle with no reason.”
Hmmm...now i know why you giggle so much;-)

I loved your interpretation of “falling in love” and “love is blind” and “love makes one a dog” theories..hehe...
“it is like white light, only when it receives showers, it reveals its colors and you can see the beautiful Rainbow shine. And like Rainbow wont shine till the sunshine and showers combine...”
Outstanding:-)

Rahul Khatri said...

"Master"...he he..hey bhagwan...sc...ab to may chahe not for the readers or for any other reason, but ego-boost ke liye I'll have to keep coming up with such posts!!

No prizes for guessing the cloud on which I am!!^__^

Nile said...

nice post rahul

Rahul Khatri said...

hey there, thnx for dropping by, i am glad you liked it.

Love and Peace,
Rahul

el_idioto said...

hmm.. a gr8 read but i'd never define love... its quite amorous in its exhibition and insight...no boundaries, no sense, no anything..

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Rahul Khatri said...

Hey Rishi, you're correct, Love can not be defined!! And even I wouldn't try n define it. In fact, that is what I was trying to point out:)

Preeti said...

Rahul the post was excellent.. The way you described Love was wonderful, even when one cannot define it, u described it outstandingly..

great..

keep blogging ..